This movie is special for various reasons. It
has showcased the mental, physical and the emotional struggles of a mother who
is taking care of a child with special needs or who is a caregiver or a
caretaker of that child. Most of the films portray or showcase the difficulties
that a child faces and how society sees that child but no one acknowledges or
shows what a mother is going through. But in the film Sky Is
Pink, Priyanka
Chopra, who plays the role of a mother (Moose aka Aditi) has beautifully and
very aptly shown and expressed her trauma, her frustration, her distress of
what she's going through when she is struggling to bring up and find what is
best for her daughter who is suffering from a very rare disease called SCID(severe combined immunodeficiency). In other words, the film is shown from a
parent's point of view.
One of my friends who saw this movie told me
that instead of Priyanka Chopra told me that she saw me instead because she has
been seeing me for a couple of years taking care of my daughter. So it's not
because she told but anyone who is a caregiver or who has observed a caregiver
closely will relate to this film. No one sees the struggle a mother or what she
is going through while playing the role of a caregiver. Everyone takes the mother
for granted because she keeps hearing, "you are a mother so you have to do
it. It is your duty". There is no such written rule that because I'm a
mother I have to do it.
We have no other choice, we do a lot, we give
away a lot, we sacrifice a lot, and many things go through us when we see our
child suffering. A part of ours shatters and bleeds when we see other kids
living normal life whereas we can't do anything except look at our children
helplessly because we are just not able to do anything to reduce their
suffering and drive away their pain.
But this movie is one of a kind movie that I
would say everyone must watch and understand that living a life of a mother who
is a caregiver be it for her child or parent or sibling or anyone it is not
easy. It takes a huge toll on her physical, mental, and emotional health. She
also undergoes a lot when she is playing that role, willingly or unwillingly.
Next time you come across any caregiver, don’t
sympathize or preach because that is not what we need. Also, don’t put us on a pedestal,
we don’t want that too. We are doing our best. And just as one pill doesn’t
cure all illnesses, one treatment doesn’t suit all conditions.
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