Monday, April 30, 2018

Z for Zoo




He woke from his deep slumber…
Stretching himself he glared at the blazing sun above.
“Yet, another boring day”, he reminded himself.

Scratching himself he moved towards the window.
He stood there watching the outside world move.
He inhaled, deeply.
The smell of the freshly cut grass,
The earthy smell of watered earth,
Brought back memories of his old, carefree days.
He held the bars of the window,
The opening to the outside world,
He wished it was not covered with bars.

People were lining outside his house,
To have a glimpse of him.
The plaque outside his cage read,
“ Male Gorilla”, along with other details.
But today he was in no mood,
As the heat was killing him.
So he simply turned and went inside the cave,
Artificially built for him.
He was not interested in meeting his so-called fans today.


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Saturday, April 28, 2018

Y for Yours Truly




Dear beloved,

Its been a long time
Since we had an open-hearted talk.
Nowadays you are always busy.
You rarely spend time with me.
I miss those days...
Those days when you had eyes only for me,
When I entered your family
As a  newly wedded bride.
I miss your loving touch…
Our first ride together,
And those long drives
And mainly, your possessiveness.

Its been six years now…
But all you do nowadays is
Crib and complain.

You have eyes only
For other beauties on road.

So it’s high time I take matters in my hand
And part ways…

So, Goodbye, Love…

Yours truly,
First love,
First car.



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Friday, April 27, 2018

X for Xenophobia




He was very possessive about her.
She was his,
His person.
He had eyes only for her.
And she too adored him.
He was her constant companion.
They both cared and loved each other.
But he hated if anyone came close to her,
Or if she spoke to somebody other than him.

If anyone came close to her,
He let out a deep growl,
Which was enough to send them scampering away.
She would always pet him,
Whenever he did that.

Yes, she loved him too.
He was her person too.
Her bodyguard,
Her pet buddy,
Who never allowed any stranger near her.

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The above story is about a pet dog whom I had met some two decades ago when we had gone to meet an old aunt of my Mom’s. He was so possessive that, when my parents bent to touch the aunt’s feet to seek blessings, he was about to pounce on them. But he did allow me to pet him, but I was scared out of hell by seeing his huge frame.

He even followed us out, till we boarded the auto, just to make sure we are not coming back.

This blog is dedicated to all the pets, who are more loyal and loving to their owners than anybody else.



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Thursday, April 26, 2018

W for Who Am I?




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          Last week I was watching this movie Kung Fu Panda (yes, I watch animated movies, don’t judge) and the above dialogue made me think, “Who am I?”

Am I a daughter?
Am I a wife?
Am I a mother?
   

In the melee of keeping everyone happy, we often tend to forget ourselves.

In India, we women are always referred to as Mr. X’s daughter or Mr. Y’s wife or XYZ’s daughter-in-law or A’s mother.  And, we too, get so used to it, that if anyone addresses us by our real name it takes few moments to register that “oh, they are calling me”. How many of you agree with it?

Due to that, with the passage of time, and also in our day-to-day busy schedule, irrespective of gender, we forget ourselves. So it is necessary to have a little bit of ‘Me Time’. Nowadays, I have made a habit of spending some me time at the end of the day. Not a mother, not a wife, not a daughter, but just me. Even if its five minutes before retiring to bed, I try to take that time out for unwinding myself by just switching off my mobile, TV and recollecting my day’s happenings, or sometimes it’s just nothing. I just go blank and watch the fan rotating on the ceiling and I ask myself,

“Who Am I?”
Am I a daughter?
Am I a wife?
Am I a mother?
Am I a blogger?
Am I a home-baker?

I am all of above but more than that, I am me…

And that my dear friends, one mustn’t forget. So even if someone calls you selfish or anything, just ignore. Trust me, even that five minutes of ‘Me time’ will do wonders.



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Wednesday, April 25, 2018

V for Visitor





He arrives suddenly one chilly evening,
At her doorstep...
She welcomes him with open arms...
He spends the night cozy at her place.

But next morning,
He takes her leave, silently.

This continues for months...
 She never complained...
Nor he demanded anything...
Their affair continued...

One fine day he just vanished ...
Leaving her heartbroken...
But still, she waited for him everyday....

Suddenly one hot summer morning,
He arrived...
Shouting at her...
Demanding her full attention...
She was jubilant.

Turned out...
He was happy to have a shelter
And was calling out for his mate
As the mating season was on.
And now as he has a place to stay...
Where he knew is always welcome and
Can visit at his own wish...


As the lady of the house has laid out a birdhouse for him

So he keeps chirping on top of his voice to attract his mate
So that they can settle down in a place

Where feathery visitors are always welcomed.



My Visitor



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Tuesday, April 24, 2018

U for Understanding your Homeopath(Guest Post by Dr. Gopikrishnan Nambiar)



    Nowadays people prefer alternative medicines and out of them huge number are referring Homeopathy. But most of the times we hear people say “Homeopathy treatment is a slow process. It will take time to recover” or “Why does the homeopath need to know about my lifestyle or personal details? What has that to do with treatment for my cold or a headache?”

          Well today’s post will answer all those questions and try to clear common misunderstandings about homeopathic treatments.

Today’s guest post is by Dr.Gopikrishnan Nambiar who is a well-known Homeopath, practicing since 2001 at his clinic Homeoworld at Goregaon and Andheri and also at Bhaktivedanta Hospital, Mira road, and blogs occasionally at Homeoworld.

We were referred to a homeopath by our family physician a few years back as my daughter had recurrent vomiting and stomach infection issues and allopathic medicines used to take a toll on her. Now it’s been five years since she is under Dr. Nambiar’s treatment and her recurrent issues are much under control.

Dr. Gopikrishnan Nambiar became a homeopathic doctor by choice; after the “sweet sugared pills” relieved him of his childhood sickness when other medicines failed. After finishing his graduation in 1995 from Fr. Muller’s Homeopathic Medical college, Mangalore he started his practice. Then in 1997, he joined his MD (homeopathy) in Materia medica at A. M. Shaikh Homeopathic Medical College, Belgaum, Karnataka.

After his completion of MD studies in 2000, he has been working as a Consultant in his clinic “HomeoWorld” since 2001 which is jointly run by him and his wife who is also MD in Homeopathy and as a Consultant in BhaktiVedanta Hospital since 2002.

Now let’s hear what Doc has to say.


Understanding your Homeopath and Homeopathic treatment


Homeopathy is a system of medicine, notable for its practice of prescribing medicines that do not contain chemically active ingredients. It has a wide and growing popularity in areas where it is practiced today, but the way homeopathy medicines work and many of the fundamental principles of homeopathy like the theory of the vital force and chronic miasms are still hotly debated.

Generally, when you visit a homeopath for the first time, you are asked many questions regarding your personal life, mental and emotional status etc. Many of the patients don’t like it and get irritated as they feel it’s not necessary and not related to their ailment. They say “what has my lifestyle got to do with my stomach ache or headache. Just give me medicines to relieve me of my pain.”

Now, that’s where homeopathy tends to differ from other systems of medicines.

Homeopathy as a science of medical treatment has a philosophy of its own and its therapeutics is based on certain fundamental principles. These are:

  • Law of Similia,
  • Law of Simplex,
  • Law of Minimum,
  • Doctrine of Drug Proving,
  • Theory of Chronic Disease,
  • Theory of Vital Force,
  • Doctrine of Drug-Dynamisation.


As we all know, a tree’s growth depends on the depth and health of the roots, similarly a person’s aliment depends on what is causing it. Homeopathy acts on the root cause rather than superficial symptoms.

For example, if you have got rashes, it’s necessary to know the root cause. Itching and redness are the symptoms, which are just a tip of iceberg. The main and important thing that a homeopath must know to treat and have effective and permanent cure is the main cause of the rash.

So just giving medication and treatment for itching and redness won't completely solve the problem, and hence to know the root cause a doctor must know your lifestyle details and other information and hence the detailed questioning, which some feel are irrelevant.

A common misunderstanding that people have about Homeopathy is that it is very slow. In my clinical experience of more than two decades, I have heard this from people that they think Homeopathy is slow.

It is a natural system, obeys the laws of nature and takes optimum time to cure. Well, the treatment of chronic diseases depends on innumerable factors patient compliance, extent and intensity of damage, age, nature of previous therapies, the physician’s competence, etc. So homeopathy works faster than people normally think.

Because once the root cause is known, the treatment is started which directly attacks the root, hence the effect of medicines is fast as compared to the contrary belief of the ‘slow effect’.

Homeopathy has a two hundred year track record of curing illness. Homeopathy received widespread public attention through its effectiveness during epidemics of cholera in the 19th century. During the great influenza epidemic of the 1920’s, homeopathic hospitals reported low death rates, while hospitals employing conventional medicine reported death rates of 20% to 30%.

The important point that I would like to point is

“Each person is a unique universe, so homeopathy makes the attempt to take into account that wholeness.  Homeopathic medicines are not substitutes for allopathic drugs.  Homeopathic treatment restores the life force, so that your system can recover optimal function.”


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Monday, April 23, 2018

T for Teenage Tantrums





          Teenage…an age wherein too many changes happen... As my friend Bindu says “They neither fit in kids section nor in adult section; not only with reference to clothes but also in case of physical, mental and emotional level too.”

          Teenage is an age where we are confused about the changes happening in us.

          Also, teenage is the make or break point of life, as teenagers are the most misunderstood by near and dear ones. Though they are still kids stepping into their adolescence they are expected to behave like grown-ups or vice versa depending on the situations.

          Many of us have teenage children and have been through that stage ourselves…

Present day teenagers are different than what we were at that stage. Today’s generations are much more clear about their goals, about their needs, whereas we used to run like headless chicken maybe and follow our elders. But today’s children have a voice of their own and they want the voice to be heard and listened.

We can't expect kids to do what we did. We need to let them go. We need to let them take their own decisions rather than follow our decisions. They are not us. We were scared of our parents and were scared to toe the line. But for today’s kids, the exposure to outside world has opened lot many doors and they can't be tamed or caged or told to obey rules.

 I have seen teenager kids of my friends, some who are really struggling with their kids as they want to follow their rules, whereas some are friends with their Moms, who allowed them to fly and soar and reach the skies.

Rather than telling them, they are difficult, I think we should bend ourselves a little and be in their shoes and think, why are they being difficult?

I know many will say “what will she know about handling a teenage tantrum?”

Well, handling a verbal teenager is much easier than handling a non-verbal teenager. Trust me. Understanding my daughter’s mood swings have given me terrible mood swings.  Anyways I have seen parents who don’t understand their children who voice their expectations and cry for help, then mine is non-verbal. She can express herself only through actions which itself is sometimes hard to interpret.


So rather than telling them, they are wrong, I feel it would be ideal if they are understood and you gain their confidence and trust. It doesn’t mean that one must always give in to their demands. But being strict and open-minded surely will help.

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Saturday, April 21, 2018

S for Secret Surprise




She glanced herself in the mirror.
She still looks the same.
Today is their tenth wedding anniversary
She looks at the wall clock for the umpteenth time.
“He is late”, she tells herself.
Each second seemed like an hour.

Finally, the doorbell rings,
And she flies to answer it.
There, he stood, looking handsome as he always did.
But today he had a sheepish grin on his face.

She is dejected to see his empty hands.
He had promised her a surprise.
Suddenly she sees a small head peeking from behind.
She got bewildered.
Is she hallucinating?? She wondered.

He hesitantly moves aside and says
“Happy anniversary wifey. Hope you like your surprise gift.”

Tears welled up in her eyes.
The tiny little mite, stood there holding her ragged doll.
She hugged her, showered her with kisses.
She had longed to hold her since she saw her during her annual orphanage visit couple of months back.
The cute little dimple on her right cheek,
The shiny blue-green eyes had mesmerized her,
The moment she had seen her.
She welcomed her inside their home and got busy, fussing over her.

He smiled and heaved a sigh of relief.

Finally,

Finally, his family was complete now.

His plan had worked perfectly.

And his secret, safe.






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Friday, April 20, 2018

R for Raksha Bandhan



She looked at the smooth silky threads, 

longingly...



Those dazzling diamonds and sparkles, 

the cute, eye-catching designs...



Every year she breezes through all the designs,

To pick up that one special thread for him.



Even though she knows...



He is no more

But still 

Her heart says,


'He will be home this Raksha Bandhan'



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Book Review-Rubina Ramesh's Rising from the Ashes



RISING FROM THE ASHES: 
A Short Story: Prequel to Knitted Tales 2 
by 
Rubina Ramesh



BLURB

She was one of the most beautiful woman Asura Sambara had laid his eyes on. 

Possessing a beauty of this magnitude became his passion. Sambara kidnapped her and whisked her off to his palace. 

Mayavati knows she has no option but to bow down to his wishes. But what about the young man who always haunts her dreams? She had no clue why she was in this palace but after speaking to the mischief making Sage Narada, it all started making sense to her. 

Who was Mayavati and what was she doing in Asura’s palace? 

Was Sambara her destiny? 

Disclaimer: This short story is a mythological fiction and should be treated as such. The author does not claim it to be a retelling of the Puranas. This piece is a product of her unbridled imagination. 



My Honest Review:


Rubina's stories have always intrigued me and have left me in awe. So when she chose mythology for her new book I was curious. I recently developed a liking for mythology, so I loved what I read. Though I have read other versions of this story, I am curious to read it through Rubina's lens.

The only thing which I would like to point out is the book cover. Though we say never judge a book by its cover, I wish the book cover was different, depicting the mythology character on which the book is based. But the present one is not bad.


Hoping to read the full story soon. 


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About the author

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Rubina Ramesh is an avid reader, writer, blogger, book reviewer and marketer. She is the founder of The Book Club, an online book publicity group. Her first literary work was published in her school magazine. It gave her immense pride to see her own name at the bottom of the article. She was about 8 years old at that time. She then went to complete her MBA and after her marriage to her childhood friend, her travel saga started. From The Netherlands to the British Isles she lived her life like an adventure. After a short stint in Malaysia, she finally settled down in the desert state of USA, Arizona. Living with her DH and two human kids and one doggie kid, Rubina has finally started living the life she had always dreamed about – that of a writer.

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Thursday, April 19, 2018

Q for Quote on Life



Long time back I had read this quote somewhere

“We always plan for life,
But life definitely always has a different plan for us.”


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Don’t know why, but this quote got struck, rather embedded in my pea-sized brain since then.

Some may not agree with this quote, but for me, this quote has always been held true, to date. Whether its destiny or luck, this quote follows me everywhere, every time.


Has this happened to anyone of you??


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